Hey fam know its been awhile but I need some advice from those who go through the same things I do.  So here is the problem this guy that I have been dating for awhile long distance think its time we take  it to moving in together but not in another state where he has a new job.  I told him that this is a big step but I have a hard time dealing with uprooting having to find a GOOD set of doctors and all that comes with moving is very stressful.  I know what triggers me into crisis the…

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So I really don't know what to say about the past few months and whats goin on with my sickle cell. I have never had this much happen to me in such a short span of time...on New year's eve the doctors told me that the knot on my hip was an abscess that was infected! ok...antibiotics and I'll be good is what I was thinking. Nope surgery all from a nurse who gave my phenergan injections IM (intra- muscular) in the same spot and it never absorbed into my muscle. i walked away with a nice wound… Continue

It's been quite some time since I've been in a relationship at least six years. I start to wonder what seems to be the problem?? I meet alot of guys but they never seem to stick around past the getting to know you phase, then it hits me that things always fall apart the moment I get sick and they see the other side of my life that I deal with. Yeah they try to be sensitive but somewhere along the way they just don't have any genuine concern except when is the old Chasidi gonna be back to her… Continue