Hey fam know its been awhile but I need some advice from those who go through the same things I do.  So here is the problem this guy that I have been dating for awhile long distance think its time we take  it to moving in together but not in another state where he has a new job.  I told him that this is a big step but I have a hard time dealing with uprooting having to find a GOOD set of doctors and all that comes with moving is very stressful.  I know what triggers me into crisis the…