i have a babygal and something funny i didnt have a crisis when iwas preganant i was sooo happy when my baby came i cant beieve i am now a mother and u know what just some days back she started saying mama, i believe we should live like normal people dont be scared
Yeap.....I want to have children so bad but don't want to pass down my sickle gene. If I have kids with someone they will have to have normal hemoglobin.
Permalink Reply by Ali on September 24, 2009 at 9:57pm
I can't speak on the topic because I do not have children. However, I will offer my two cents. I wanted to have children, but was advised against doing so. At 42 years old, I am very sad about this. I would suggest that you have genetic counseling with your partner prior to conceiving. In addition, you should consult a perinatologist. This specialty cares for the mother and fetus under high risk circumstances.
i told myself a lie growing up: that i wouldn't get married or have children. now i think i shouldn't have done that. everyone should be positive and think about living life normally; get married, have kids, e.t.c. i am 43 and still not married but i am going to get married (with the right person: AA ) and have kids by Gods grace.
Jason Goldie.